This is the first time that he brought Avril back to China after he established a relationship with Avril.
Although I have brought Avril home before, the relationship between the two people at that time was completely different from now, just good friends.
Now, it’s more or less like taking your wife back to see your in-laws.
Why do you want to go back to see your parents? Because Avril wants to marry Changsheng.
It has been six years since they met in the summer of 2000. We are already very familiar with each other, so Avril Lavigne made this request, and Changsheng agreed.
At the age of 33, it’s not too early to get married.
As for Avril Lavigne, it seems a little early to get married at the age of 22. And it will definitely have an impact on her career, but Avril Lavigne is very determined and has no objection to winning.
So this time, Changsheng plans to take Avril to meet her parents. If the parents have no objection, they are ready to hold the wedding.
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Although Changsheng bought a house for his parents in the best community in the city as early as six years ago, the house is vacant now, and his parents still live in that shabby family community.
Therefore, Changsheng can only bring Avril Lavigne to the family community.
Unlike the last time I came here, there were many people around. When Changsheng brought Avril Lavigne again, there were not so many people watching.
Although everyone will still follow their figure with their eyes, at least they will not follow behind.
Everyone’s literacy has been improving with the improvement of comprehensive national strength in recent years. It used to be rare to see foreigners on the street, but now it is commonplace, so naturally no one will make a fuss.
Even if Changsheng and Avril Lavigne are celebrities, so what?
In the eyes of these people, there is no difference. They grew up watching Changsheng, but they lost a lot of admiration for celebrities. Of course, there is envy.
Changsheng took Avril Lavigne back to her family community where she grew up.
Mom, who knew the news in advance, couldn’t sit still at home and simply went to the gate of the community to wait for her son and his girlfriend-she didn’t know that Avril planned to marry Changsheng.
Her husband, the ever-victorious father, stayed at home. This taciturn man is not good at expressing his feelings. He can’t do this kind of thing that he wants to see his son urgently and then runs to the gate of the community to wait for his son.
At the gate of the community, three people met. Avril said hello to her future mother-in-law in Chinese, which made her ever-victorious mother happy from ear to ear.
"How lovely!" She is full of praise for her ever-victorious girlfriend.
Avril Lavigne, who only wears light makeup, is almost plain, and the iconic smoky dark circles are gone, which looks much more refreshing.
His son came back to see them after his promise, which made Changsheng’s mother very proud. On the way home, everyone she met would say hello loudly, and she was so energetic that she was twenty years younger.
Changsheng looked at his mother’s back behind his back and felt a lot in his heart.
Some things, I’m afraid I won’t know so thoroughly without repeating them …
In the previous life, he especially hated the thing that "parents put their ardent hopes on their children". He felt that parents were parents and children were children, so why should children live according to their parents’ wishes? Why should parents pin their hopes on their children? He is eager for freedom and rebellious life. For this reason, although his parents sent him to Beijing to study in the hope that he could find a good job, he would still choose not to study guitar and sing in the subway. As a result, he still achieved nothing, and finally he could only return to his hometown and wander around.
But now his thoughts have changed, and he begins to understand why his parents put their hopes on their children, and why parents are always used to arranging their children’s future.
Because parents who have eaten more salt than their children have eaten, they always hope that their children can grow up safely and smoothly, get married and start a career. So they pass on their experience to their children, hoping that they can avoid detours according to their own experience.
But which child would want his life to be arranged from the beginning? So the war between children and parents will always exist.
The result of this is that parents and children become enemies.
Looking at her mother’s cheerful appearance in front, Chang Sheng understood her parents’ painstaking efforts at the beginning.
They always want to be good, whether they are famous or not, rich or not. However, in this society, without money, it is basically a bad life.
So now they are always better off being rich and famous, and they are happy.
It’s not that they are greedy for their children’s money, but that their children have the ability to make a lot of money, so they can finally stop worrying about it. This is more important than anything.
Cultivating a child, if you have to rely on your parents to support you at the age of 30, will only break your parents’ hearts.
In the past, Chang Sheng was such a person.
At the age of 30, I earned every month, not to mention subsidizing my family. Even my own expenses were not enough. Every month, I became a moonlight family, and I had to rely on my parents’ support.
Will anyone be proud of such a child?
I’m afraid it will only be in the sound of other people’s comments, and the head will be buried lower and lower, and the back will become more and more camel.
It may be utilitarian to say that economic income is used to measure whether a child is promising. But you live in this realistic society, what doesn’t need money? You can’t even find love without money, so why let the person you like live with you without money?
So money is really important.
Because having money means that you have the ability to survive in this world.
Knowing this, Changsheng understands the pride of his parents, but feels guilty about his previous ignorance.
Fortunately, now he can have a chance to do it again, otherwise I’m afraid he’ll really regret it.
He is an ordinary person, except that he loves football very much, and he is no different from ordinary people. To put it bluntly, he is a layman.
He likes money and beautiful women, and hopes that his parents can live a long life and make them proud of him. He is neither lofty nor maverick, nor can he learn to be fresh and petty.
So seeing his parents happy, he is also happy from the heart.
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When I got home, I met my father, and the family sat down for a meal happily. Then Chang Sheng told her parents that she wanted to marry Avril Lavigne.
No bloody parents are against the plot.
Changsheng’s parents do not discriminate against foreigners, nor do they say that Changsheng is not allowed to marry a foreign girl. In their view, as long as the son likes it and the character of the other girl is trustworthy, then there is no problem.
Now that the son is rich, there is no need to consider whether the woman is rich or not.
As for the fact that Avril Lavigne is an entertainment star, the two old people are also quite open-as long as the children are willing, what does the old man care?
Changsheng is not a teenager in his early twenties. Now he is thirty-three, with a successful career. After so many years of experience abroad, he has matured a lot. What do we have to worry about his choice?
Isn’t it always said in the media that Changsheng has a good eye for people? Then his eyes on a girl should not be too bad, right?
The two old people looked at each other and didn’t speak, but the tacit understanding of husband and wife’s life for many years has let them know each other’s thoughts.
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Avril Lavigne looked at the two old people nervously after Changsheng told them about her wedding plans. On the way to China, Changsheng gave her a lot of knowledge about the traditional customs of China.
Therefore, she knows that China people attach great importance to their parents and elders. Getting married is an important event in life, and it is naturally impossible for two of a kind to go to church hand in hand. In China, parents’ opinions are very important.